HIMCOM FAREWELL 2022

Farewell is not an ending it is actually a new start not only for us also for others, as well as for those who are giving us the blessings of goodbye. We hardly get to know the fact of an emotional ending and a fearful start up as we don’t know where the things are going to end, we make such memories which we barely able to forget with this whole universe. As we all know life is all about giving & taking what we learn what we take we cannot return them back, also what we give to our loved ones we cannot expect the return to be favourable.

Goodbyes are not easy am telling you it looks to be done well & good but when it comes to say actually a “Goodbye” our heart just stop for an emotional but a blissful ending. Whether saying goodbye, as in “see you later,” or goodbye as a final step in moving on and creating closure in a relationship, we often deny ourselves the opportunity to practice this important human interaction. This vulnerability, displaying the difficulty we may experience in separating from another, is a common challenge in a world where many are told to “be a man,” and avoid expressing emotion, or “stay strong,” as in avoiding all chances that you might cry or express other emotions outside the narrow happy, sad, and mad feelings, and be perceived by another as weak, or “overly sensitive.” I’m here to tell you that’s all bogus. The human condition is about experiencing emotions and connecting with others through relationship. It’s a big reason why therapy itself works! Therapy stands to provide the vessel to hold these essential aspects of being a person, living in a world that so often teaches us to deny these exact things!

 It’s important to honor the footprint others leave on our heart. It’s equally important to recognize that not all relationships are meant to be life-long. Many are time-limited; they are established for a specific reason, and when life circumstances shift, as they inevitably do, the relationship no longer serves its previous function. It’s ok to let relationships ebb and flow and let some float away; that doesn’t mean they didn’t matter. While skipping to the good part here we goes to the beautiful ending.

Megha Gupta

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