"The Power Of Words"

 You may have a habit of saying whatever comes to your mind and  making others hurting. The problem is not your tongue, you should learn to think that what words you are using and what would be the impact of it on others.

Few ways to control our tongue:-

1.We don’t need to express our every thought:

Be sensible and keep calm because too much talk takes you to wrong things in life . It’s easy to get caught up in debates. We are passionate about something and we think that we can explain the things just a bit more, surely the person we are debating will finally get it, again proverbs offers a different perspective. Calm down and take a pause for at least 10 seconds. Take a moment to think about effect of your words on others and on the situation in general. You should consider the consequences of your words. Sometimes saying nothing is better than saying something. Silence can be powerful.




Don’t waste your breathe for fools, for they will hate the wisest advice.

2. There is a power in our words and we must use them carefully:

Everyone in this world has a negative thought about a person or in situation. It’s natural, you can think whatever you want, problems only start when the thoughts become words which hurts other people. Control your tongue and say only when use appropriate words. Kind words calm a soul. When someone tell you that you are looking great today, the whole day went smoothly. And the same day would become hard if someone cuts you with their harsh comment. Because harsh words cut like a knife.

3. Our speech should not mimic the words:

In this world, we have so many ways to use our tongue, not only in person, but through face book, e-mail, twitter, blog comments, etc. We have so many places in we must control our tongues. While controlling the tongue is something that we can never fully master but Some sayings gives us practical ways in which to start. We should avoid sensitive topics. Be a good listener. 

Let’s make a deal within ourselves that today we will speak a life!




        Preeti Nagar

        HIMCOM 

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