DEALING WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

Negative people exist all around us and it is not possible to avoid them. Negative people survive on a very unhealthy diet and worry. This mindset is geared towards the need to feel protected whereas positive people develop an ability to evaluate and face the situations. Negative people like to be a part of terrible news conversation. They used to enjoy these conversations. They even take the compliments in a wrong way.

They find jokes offensive because they think that jokes are about them. Negative people may compliment you. They put ‘but’ after giving compliments which changes their positive into negative. For example they say “You are looking beautiful today but you should not wear these footwear with this outfit”. The main cause behind lack of success is Negativity. In everyone’s life, there are a few people who are so negative that you will get a headache for the whole day, if you had a small conversation with them. They have a nature to take out the negativity from any kind of situation. It is very difficult to deal with such negative people and the situations created by them. If a person is dedicated to do so then dealing with negative people is also possible.





Start avoiding these people. If you are avoiding these people for your own development , it is not rude to stay away from the negative people company. It is better for you to leave the place when you are in a situation, where you cannot tolerate their negative vibrations.

Try to avoid an argument. It will be better for both of you, if that negative person thinks that he has won the argument. At least now the negative person will shut his mouth. Your involvement in these arguments will shift your positive to negative.

Stick to light topics. When you are unable to avoid these negative people. Try to keep your discussion on light topics. Never get involved in deep conversations with them. Never start discussion on politics topics. A simple hello and goodbye is also good for these people.

Appreciate them when they speak something positive. Remember, everyone wants to be get appreciated. There are chances that negative person may start speaking positive words just to get your appreciation.




Preeti Nagar

HIMCOM

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